To The Tardis We're Going To 1988
I have been meaning to write about snap shots in my life for a long time. Thinking about time and years as they passed makes me feel like I missed many moments of importance and would give anything to get those moments back. Hence my tardis.I don't promise to write about these in order or even to write about them at all. The Doctor doesn't travel in only one direction in time and neither will I.
Here are the important years: 1977, 1978, 1981, 1982, 1983, 1986, 1987, 1988, 1990, 1993, 1995, 1996, 1997, 1998, 1999, 2000, 2001, 2002, 2003, 2006, 2007
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1988
The night we went to the concert we had some friends with us from Indiana. They would have been more comfortable visiting our current home at the corner of Nowhere and No place in Georgia than in the 100,000 person crowd on Chicago's Lake Front.
The night was a disaster. Dcup twisted her ankle and our friend was so frightened she could not pee. She waited in line at the porta-potty for 10 minutes and once she was in there it crawled back-up like she was a sober man peeing in a trough at Wrigley Field.
The capper, my mother would not let us sleep in the same room and she held the key to the chastity belt.



9 variables:
Tschaikowsky's 4th Symphony, Marche Slave and Capriccio Italien, Mahler's 1st Symphony, Verdi's Requiem. Handel's Messiah. Mendelsohn's Violin Concerto, many Sousa Marches, Beethoven's 5th Symphony and Egmont Overture, Copland's Appalachian Spring and many, many more...
Are you sure we weren't separated at birth? These are the VERY songs that top not only my list of favs....but MusicMan's as well.
Good taste you got there, bud.
I remember that weekend vividly. I was so mean. Remember how we were sitting at a stoplight next to one of those little green shacks that people sold newspapers out of? I said to our friend S, "See that little shack? Someone lives in there." And she believed it.
I'm ashamed to admit that I was once so awfully mean.
But that was some crazy weekend. Wouldn't you mother flip if she knew what kind of badness we got up to together now?
Dora - I do have an unexplained birthmark. They are some of my favs!
Dcup - Seriously, the peeing thing was sad and funny and it didn't seem to affect her career.
I don't want to go back to 1988.
I, too, have no strong positive memories of 1988. I was half way through my degree, was missing our Bicentenary, homesick as hell, and felt so alone. Definitely a period of low self esteem.
I was living in Florida, had my own business, and then I took a trip to Chicago that changed my life.
I went to meet up with a woman that I had a crush on. She was running the conference I was attending, so we didn't have a lot of time together.
She asked if I would have dinner with a woman from Paris who was attending the conference. The woman didn't know anyone there, and wanted to meet "American feminists." I did, and she was delightful.
She was touring the US before heading back to France, and asked me if I would meet her for lunch in Miami. I lived on the Gulf coast, but thought "what the heck ... she's traveled from Paris ... what's a little drive across Alligator Alley going to hurt?"
We had lunch at a restaurant that happened to be hosting an event for a local candidate for state legislature. A bunch of NOW women were there, I had a great time, we all became friends ... and within two years I had closed down my business and moved to DC to work at the national NOW office.
That was in 1990, and I've been here ever since -- and love it!
Oh, and thanks for the link! I can't believe I haven't added you to my blogroll ... will take care of that right away.
BAC
Ah, that marked the beginning of my very last drunk! After the Concert was over (ending with the 1812 Overture with the fireworks coordinated to the cannon-fire), the next day (ex)husband and I boarded a plane to London where we began a long biking trip. I was drunk every day on that trip - by the time we got home, I was done. Hard to believe it's been 20 years.
As for your parents locking you in different rooms - that's what parents do. Wait til your kids are old enough to date - you will discover the "Don't TELL me That!" mode of operating - you still remember changing their diapers.
Bubs - I respect your non-desire to go back to 1988 but we did have fun.
Mountjoy - I hope your self esteem have popped but up.
BAC - You have some of the most interesting stories. Thanks for sharing and I'm glad you landed in DC.
Divajood - the scarey thing is our oldest, the dancer, is 17. But she is not much for dating. I am sure you're right.
That doesn't sound so fun!
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